Learning about othering art of hosting stories from the journey story as process partner Jul 26, 2025

 At the end of May I was in Budapest stewarding an Art of Hosting training. Hungary is a place like many others. Control is rising. Activists and community workers are feeling despondent, desperate for resources and under threat. We don't know how much longer we can bring participatory practice.

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Living between the two hands of chaos leadership learning edge stories from the journey Jul 24, 2025
Around June I got overwhelmed enough BEING in the work that I couldn't REPORT on the work. Maybe you know how that is... But meaningful conversations and deep thoughts don't stop, so here I am again!
 
Recently I was having a catch up conversation with Bob Stilger. I love talking to Bob! He'
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Talking about the power of stories about stories crafting stories stories from the journey Jun 18, 2025

The "Am Ende ist alles Gut" podcast with Mareike Tiede 

Have you missed my voice? Listen to the podcast I did with German host and fellow storyteller Mareike Tiede. My host says: "For me she is the Pippi Longstockings of story: brave, strong and creative." In this podcast we talk about how stories ...
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A peek into a Flow Game Host training flow game May 20, 2025

Twenty vibrant souls joined us for the Flow Game Host training in Berlin at Beachmitte April 11 - 13. At the same time, two historical threads were weaving themselves together. Toke Møller and I left Denmark for Berlin on April 9, the day 50 years ago when the Nazis invaded. We named for ourselves t...

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Helping each other come in from the cold stories in a word May 18, 2025

I was in Innsbruck, Austria at the beginning of May for an Art of Hosting training. It had been seven years since the last training at Haus der Begegnung and a fresh challenge for me to see if I could deliver a training and work in German for five straight day.s

During one of the World Café round...

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Where is potential hiding and how do you coax it to show up? art of hosting leadership learning edge makes me think May 17, 2025

During the Art of Hosting training in Innsbruck last week, someone posted a session in Open Space that really caught my eye -- What does potential need to become visible? 

You might also ask it like this: What is needed in me/us to be able to notice the potential that is hidden in every moment, e...

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What comes after hierarchy? art of hosting collective wisdom work of the heart May 04, 2025

 As you probably figured out by now, bees are my heroes.

Not only do they naturally produce the most robust structure in nature -- the hexagon -- but also the only foodstuff on the planet that doesn't spoil -- honey.

I call my time being in groups, deep in the buzz of working well together, "bein...

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Creating "the place where I am most myself" art of hosting collective story harvest story as a map story goes to work May 02, 2025

At the beginning of April I was part of a team preparing for an Art of Hosting training in western Denmark. The venue was a former boy's school transformed into a retreat centre, Himmelbjerggåarden, close to the "Sky Mountain" where so many Danes have gathered for more than a century to be in dialog...

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The dance of ME and WE learning edge people in practice stories from the journey May 01, 2025
Where are your places of practice? Who is your community?

Back in 2008 I was part of a conference hosting team in Takayama, Japan. We were invited by the Institute of Cultural Affairs (ICA), the forerunner of the International Association of Facilitators, to host the different parts of the then UN ...

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Paying attention to the overstory... story activism story as a map story goes to work Mar 21, 2025

 This is the third part of our look at Malcom Gladwell's book Revenge of the Tipping Point. This part of his work mirrors what I always tell people: 

The story of place is always working in the background. You are in it, so you'd better be aware of it.

In fact, Gladwell says it like this: "Com...

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The gift of being inn conversation together collective wisdom hosting the power of conversation Mar 17, 2025

 What is it that we can do together that none of us can do alone?

This is something that we discover every time we come together for a deeply meaningful conversation where the question at the centre of our circle resides in our hearts. We get reminded that there are things none of us can do well ...
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Getting clear on the role of the superspreader... about stories listening stories from the journey Mar 15, 2025

Here's Part 2 to my report on Malcom Gladwell's book "Revenge of the Tipping Point."

This is what most of us think of as a "superspreader" -- someone who is sneezing loudly in a public place. Recently I heard one parent talk about their kindergarten aged kids as "germ factories." 🤢

But, and only...

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